It has been so long........
This space has been on a long hiatus for almost 2 years and going. A quick update, I have been so so busy with work life and family life ever. So it started off with work first. Got employed in mid of 2013 and was too tired everyday after work to squeeze brain juice into updating this space here. Neglected a almost 10 years old e-diary. Always giving myself excuses not to post anything. Then comes 2014, I became a mum and was trying to manage my life with a newborn - infant routine. Took me quire sometime to adjust with the lack of sleep and juggling with my work + the "staying with in-laws" thing.
It is taking a toll on me seriously. Both mentally and physically.
I have so so much to say yet now Im just staring on my screen wondering how and where should I get myself started.
My current status in 2016:
Became mother of two. Unfortunately, I felt I have lost my elder child. To joke, simply put that I am just a surrogate mum. Eg, my elder only co-sleep with the grandparents. (seriously~~~~) So its the "staying with in-laws" thing again.
I need some expert advise for me badly and desperately! How do I discipline my toddler kid while staying with the in-laws.
Gonna lost my cool-ness over the kid because they spoiled him rather than teach him. They are creating very bad habits, which Im afraid it will be too late to reroute him. So with the second one out, there is no way the in-law can handle cause my elder is so sticky. Everything seems to be so bad situation right now.
I don even have the say in my way and in-laws are just taking my elder one away from me EVER SINCE I DELIVERED!
"I desperately need some advise on how do i handle / discipline my kid when in-laws are around."
Okay. Once I start I could not stop. It has been a problem for almost 2 years and not resolve. Rather it escalated from bad to worse.